Leaving Christianity

“Don’t marry someone unless you’re equally yoked.” This is something we were frequently reminded of during our later years of youth group and into Bible Study, largely thanks to 2 Corinthians 6:14: Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? Essentially, don’t marry someone (or even bother dating) unless you’re at the same spiritual level- that you both believe the same core tenants of Christian faith….

A man jumps onto stage to share his testimony. He’s wearing mocha-coloured chinos and a white t-shirt, the outline of his muscular body evident in the fall of the shadow on stage. He pushes the hair from his forehead with his fingers and clears his throat. Outside the church building, he’d be sexy. Inside the church, he’s angelic. “I grew up in a Christian home,” he begins. “… When I turned 18 I fell away from God. For years I…

When I was an evangelical Christian, I don’t think I ever successfully brought someone to church. I mean sure, I had plenty of conversations about God, I had plenty of conversations with those who were ‘straying’, but I never had the guts to invite someone unacquainted with church lore. This was less about the strength of my faith and more about a fear of thrusting a religion onto someone enough to turn them away entirely. My friends knew me as…

“You can’t sit on the fence with Jesus” I say to a Year 8 girl with blonde plaits. It’s 2014 and we’re lying on a patch of grass overlooking the ocean. The bell is about to ring for dinner at the youth camp I’m leading on. “You’re either on the field or you’re off it. There’s no middle ground. Either Jesus died for your sins and is the God of the universe or he’s not” I say. She nods. She…